Hey, have you heard the news?
I have a new website! It's called Cash and Joy and its mission is to increase the awesomeness of the world - of course - through glorious and meaningful marketing.

Why did I focus on marketing? Because marketing can be the most fun and meaningful activity of your business instead of the most dreaded and icky... if you do it right.

Website heresy: Connections first, money later

Imagine Mr Moneybags walking down the street. He has so much disposable income in his pockets that his pants are starting to sag a bit and he has dreadful lower back pain. But suddenly! there you are offering to sell him your wares. It doesn’t even matter what they are, he accepts. In fact, in order to get rid of the wad of cash in his socks, he pays you sixteen times as much as you asked for in slightly fragrant but nonetheless welcome notes. Without even asking your name he tips his hat and skips down the street…

…and then you wake up.

Marketing in the real world

Real people buy for two reasons:

  • need
  • emotion

Selling to need (real need: water in the middle of the desert, or plumbing to a man with exploded pipes, or umbrellas in a sudden rainstorm) is easy. You tell them what they’re gonna get and how much it costs. They buy. Done.

But the vast, vast majority of things we buy aren’t things we really need.

What does this have to do with the heading?

Wait, liebchen, all will be explained.

Well?

Okay, okay! So you’re selling goods and services that require that your customers feels something before they buy. (What that emotion is will depend on what you sell. If you’re stuck, this article on what problem your product/service really solves might help.) For large retailers, they can amp up the emotions as much as possible, knowing they’re the one who will benefit. Apple doesn’t care which store you buy your iPod at. Jim’s Mowing doesn’t care which of their franchisees mow your lawn. However you purchase, they profit.

But you, you have fewer ways to sell. You have to make sure that your customer comes to you when they feel in a buying mood. The best way to ensure they choose you instead of all the other people? Make them trust you, like you, know you. Build a relationship and you’ll be the one they think of when they need what you have. So you need a bit of time to develop that relationship before they buy.

I’m sure you’ve seen websites that are like the hand-lettered signs in cranky newsagents: Buy Something or Get Out.

This is daft.

You need reasons for your potential customers to hang around with you before they’re ready to buy. That’s why blogs are so useful, that’s why Twitter kicks ass, that’s why encouraging people to sign up to a mailing list rocks. They are all ways to get on your customer’s radar now, while they’re interested, but before they’re ready to buy.

However! that’s only half the picture. You can’t develop a great relationship by shouting at someone, and you certainly don’t want to create completely passive customers: passive customers won’t take the action required to give you money.

So what do I do?

You give your customers ways to connect, actions to take, ways to build the relationship from their side. Ways to get them involved!

  • The magnificent Sparky Firepants had a spur-of-the-moment draw-his portrait competition. It was random and fun and engaging, and appropriate to who he is and the services he offers. (Feel free to admire my delightful entry.)
  • Ask questions on your blog and get people’s opinions. Everyone loves to be heard! Everyone loves people who ask their opinion and/or advice! Take the extra time to respond to the comments, and take the conversation much further.
  • Hang out and be friends on Twitter.
  • Run a survey on your blog. Ask what topics people would like you to cover, what articles they like, what you haven’t done well…
  • Offer to do guest posts.
  • Let them do guest posts on your blog.
  • Talk about their successes – interviews, case studies.
  • Give testimonials.

All of these actions involve no money. They do, however, require a small investment of time, attention, thought, or dodgy Photoshop skills. When your potential customers see that you use that investment of theirs well (by answering their comments, chatting on Twitter, implementing their suggestions, respecting their opinions, etc), then they feel more comfortable about investing other things with you. Things like cash.

So for example…

I’m watching with joy as you build your increasingly more awesome websites; they are the best possible proof that I’m doing great work. In fact, I’d like to have a showcase of them. If you’d like to have your website (and a pretty glowing recommendation) listed on this website, let me know in the comments.

Your five-minute mission, should you choose to accept it…

Make sure that there are at least three engagement tools on your website that do not involve money. If there aren’t, plan to start them very soon.

Do you have plenty of engagement methods? Do you want to be involved in the Awesome Showcase? Tell us in the comments!

  • http://www.engageyourstrengths.com wdaunheimer

    Nice incentive to implement your ideas! I've just added a post about being the boss your people hate and asked for feedback. Hopefully I'll get some. One day, I might qualify to be a featured site of yours. I'd love it – you gave me a badly needed shot in the arm.

    Visitors – Catherine rocks! Come back often!

  • http://www.BeAwesomeOnline.com Catherine Caine

    Awww, Wendy as always you know just what to say! You'll be on the list for sure.

  • pdxbookkeeper

    Awesome post, Catherine. You've given me lots of things to think about. I've known for a while that I need to get my rear in gear with regards to Twitter, blogging, having an email newsletter, etc., and your article just reaffirmed for me all the reasons why I should be making those items a priority sooner rather than later.

    On an unrelated note, I love your 5-minute missions posts. They're some of the most useful and easily implemented solutions I've found for people who are floundering with the whole having a website thing. Would you be offended if I borrowed your idea but re-worked it for accounting/QuickBooks advice for small businesses?

  • http://www.BeAwesomeOnline.com Catherine Caine

    Aww, thanks Jennifer! I'm glad it's doing what I had hoped for…

    Of course I don't mind! Link me to it, I'd love to see the idea in action. :)

  • http://www.dodgymoviesreviewed.com/ Gareth

    I'd love to be included in a list of awesome websites, although, I suspect it would be more of a warning. Probably with a tagline of “Just because you have a keyboard and an opinion doesn't give you the right to inflict it on other people!”

    I've decided to take a different approach. I'm getting a little more feedback through twitter (now that I actually see the point and have decided to use it correctly for me) And I've realised that I just need to be awesome and myself. The website that I'm running is probably not going to generate enough cash to weigh my pants down, but it has already helped me meet awesome people that I want to work with, and I'm sure it'll help me meet more.

    completely unrelatedly (but I find that I can wax lyrical when I am avoiding technical reports) I find myself associating music with websites more and more (humming theme tunes when I go there) And everytime I open yours the mission impossible one goes to max volume (good work)

  • http://bornfamous.com/ LaVonne Ellis

    My site isn't awesome yet, but when it is I'll definitely ask to be on the list. Still trying to decide whether to keep my well-ranked but irrelevant domain name (former personal blog) or dream up a new one with a keyword in it.

  • http://www.BeAwesomeOnline.com Catherine Caine

    Quit with the self-deprecation, you. If I say you're awesome, then you're awesome. :)

    Glad to hear about the musical theme! Your website has the slow-motion-walking-away-from-an-explosion theme song.

  • http://www.BeAwesomeOnline.com Catherine Caine

    You can always do both… I mean, bornfamous has almost nothing to do with the service you want to provide, but it's still a cool and catchy name. You could always create a much more prosaic and seo-ish domain name and link one to the other?

  • http://bornfamous.com/ LaVonne Ellis

    Hmm, hadn't thought of that, thanks. There's one problem I should have
    mentioned: someone has trademarked the bf name out from under me. I
    didn't have the money to fight it, and a lawyer told me they couldn't
    take my domain from me because I've had it for ten years. But he also
    said if I do any advertising on it, that changes the game.

    So I'm flying under the radar right now, but if I have any success
    with this, I'll always be worrying that they could do a
    cease-and-desist on me and basically kill my business. We did have
    contact at one point; I offered to sell them the domain, but they
    weren't very interested.

    Maybe I could offer it to them again and start fresh?

  • http://www.BeAwesomeOnline.com Catherine Caine

    Yuck. Then I would say it's time for a fresh start with a new domain name.

  • http://bornfamous.com/ LaVonne Ellis

    I was afraid you'd say that. :sigh:: Back to Godaddy…

  • http://bornfamous.com/ LaVonne Ellis

    I think I'll keep the personal blog stuff on bornfamous and use its page
    rank by LINKING to the new domain. Frequently. Now to brainstorm a new
    domain. Looks like all the good ones are taken.

  • http://www.BeAwesomeOnline.com Catherine Caine

    Feel free to hold off until after you've figured out your target market. It'll be easier once you know exactly who you're aiming for.

  • http://bornfamous.com/ LaVonne Ellis

    Doh! [sound of hand smacking forehead] Of course!

  • http://bornfamous.com/ LaVonne Ellis

    Still haven't got my site ready, but I did make a video. :) Wanna see?

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u_WaVvBBphk

    I know, needs work, but I just wanted to get the fear factor out of the way.

  • http://www.BeAwesomeOnline.com Catherine Caine

    Well done!

    I love your voice, I'm guessing it's all the time in radio but it's a pleasure to listen to!

    Are you going to do a whole series of these? If so, I strongly recommend mind-mapping out the series. When I made my videos it was so much easier when I knew in advance which points I was going to cover when.

  • http://bornfamous.com/ LaVonne Ellis

    Thanks! Far from perfect, and I do plan to do it over, but I think mistakes
    make us more human and likable. Yes, I'm going to do the whole series -
    mind-mapping sounds like a great idea, thanks.

  • http://bornfamous.com/ LaVonne Ellis

    Btw – do you use mindmapping software or paper & pencil?

  • http://www.BeAwesomeOnline.com Catherine Caine

    Personally I use Xmind, which is free software. But I know some people prefer paper, that's cool too.

  • http://bornfamous.com/ LaVonne Ellis

    Ah, thanks – installing it now. :)

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