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Hi! I'm a drawing of Catherine. She does most of the writing here, including this blurb. (Does this count as writing in the third person?) Catherine believes that websites don't really run on technology, they run on emotions. If you agree, then she wants to help you rock it out and be awesome online.

My List of Awesomeness

Care of wulfshado: “Be the kind of woman that when your feet hit the floor in the morning, the devil says: O CRAP, SHE’S UP!”

Hell to the motherfucking YEAH, baybee.

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I have mastermind groups now. I used to have support groups, but I don’t need support any more. What I really need is someone kicking over my sandcastle and saying, “Build BIGGER!!!” So I’m in one this morning and I’m talking about what I want to achieve with the website in the next month/year/century and I start with the usual teeny, “Oh, you know, I want to keep the lights on and get some savings and such and I want to hire some assistants to do the boring stuff…”

My fellow mastermind wisely points out that I am talking about away-oriented (i.e. I’m running away from bad stuff like debt and boring work) rather than toward-oriented, which is where my soul and heart really lives.

Where’s all the Good Stuff, Great Stuff, that I’m running toward? Where’s the power and glory and exotic ice-cream flavours?

Not happening. All of the exciting things I thought I’d do once I’d thrown off the yoke of the Day Job… it hasn’t happened yet. It’s all been World of Warcraft and living small-ish.

Of course, putting the fun times off for a while was a freakin’ great idea. The last two months have been short on two very important resources: cash and energy.

But now the cash is starting to turn up as new and wonderful clients are coming in the door and my existing readers are doing profoundly wonderful things. I’m not 100% sure that the cash will keep coming, but every time I have a week of no activity, just before I completely freak out I have a $1000 day and am set for another week or two.

And it’s SPRING! SPRING! My energy is spiking already as the days grow brighter and warmer. All of you who’ve been alarmed at my energy levels in the last few months… well, I’ve been almost asleep compared to what’s coming.

Let the great times roll

I need the list of wonder to refer to. The list of all the completely cool-ass awesomeness I can do now that my time and responsibility is my own and I have all that is needed to be MAGNIFICENT.

To live ones of those lives that makes complete strangers sad at your funeral. “I wish I’d met her, she sounded kick-ass.”

Today I am writing that list. And within one week I’ll be already accomplishing something from that list. Because I’ve done two months of grind, it’s time to start roller-skating!

Your more-than-five minute mission, should you choose to accept it…

Write out your list. Make it long and exciting and colourful. List all the someday-maybes, the I-always-wanted-tos, the when-I’m-wealthy-I’lls… everything that tickles your fancy, no matter how impossible.

And within the week, have knocked over one thing on that list. Let’s DO this, darlings. Let’s rock the hell out of our lives.

You on board? Tell in the comments!

How to buy infoproducts wisely

Normally this is Review Thursday, where I tell you about the free things people keep sending me nowadays in the mistaken belief that I am influential.

Today, I’m going to talk about a related issue: how to decide whether a resource is right for you. I am cheerfully going to call myself an expert on this, having bought about $6,000 of them in the last 12 months. Some rocked my world and changed my life, and some… didn’t.

Here are my guidelines on how to spend wisely and buy beautifully.

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Should I go into debt to buy information?

No.

But going into debt to buy action? Thats usually worthwhile.

If you buy the how-to that provides the last piece of the puzzle, or a resource that helps you demolish the blocks that have held you back, or a course that gets you building your castle in the sky… well, those are all actions that will probably lead to you making back more money than you invested. That makes sense, financially: going into temporary debt for long-term gain. To accountants it’s the only sensible reason to go into debt at all.

Resources that don’t lead to action aren’t an investment; they’re an indulgence. Treat them as any other indulgence: if you wouldn’t put $300 worth of shoes on your credit card, then $297 of infoproducts you don’t have short-term plans to use can’t go on there either.

This doesn’t mean you can’t buy something for the joy of it, but don’t justify it to yourself as a “useful purchase” if you’re not going to actually use it.

How do I avoid buyer’s regret?

I know. It’s calling to you, isn’t it? The sales page looks so great, and you love the creator, and you really want to be part of the whole experience. To be in on the ground floor. To get the bargain. To belong.

So how do you make sure you still love this e-book in the morning? By asking boring rational questions.

1. Would it be worth the price tag for the warm and wonderful feelings of buying it? If you bought it, enjoyed the purchase, but never opened the files?
Yes – buy it and enjoy!
No – go to question 2.

2. Would the price be worthwhile if you followed all the steps and got the promised results?
Yes – go to question 3.
No – I wouldn’t recommend it, then.

3. Do you have a plan on how you’ll use the product? Do you have time in the next month to review the materials and then implement them?
Yes – Buy away!
No – Think very hard about whether this is for you.

I want it, but the price is really high. Should I go for it anyway?

The price isn’t as important as the value. Price is a constant, but value… that’s personal. That’s something that only you can decide. For me, $20 would be too much to pay for a guide on amateur astronomy, because I am not an astronomer and don’t care to become one. (Stupid oring tiny stars that all look alike, I don’t get it.) $2 would be too much to pay for something I really don’t want.

If you have an inner voice telling you that you think the price is too high, it probably means the value is too low. You don’t want it enough.

So… don’t buy it! You don’t gotta. People won’t throw limes at you in the street or kidnap your goldfish if you don’t buy something you’re feeling conflicted about.

I could be much more nuanced about digging into why you’re valuing it this way and whether you have issues about whether your thing is worth spending money on, but at the core it’s all about taking action. If the uncomfortable “Ye gods I’m spending a lot of cashola on this thing” feeling will get you to really dig into the resource and get every dollar’s worth, then go for it!

If, however, buying something above a certain price point will just make you feel guilty and shamed, don’t buy. Read free stuff instead.

What’s the best way to get real value from an infoproduct?

DO THE FUCKING WORKSHEETS.

I’ll say it again: Take action. Massive, inspired, bold, regular action. The best infoproducts are the ones where you stop the audio to run off and Do Stuff while all of your synapses are lit up like New Year’s Eve.

The second-best ones plant seeds in your mind that in a few weeks or months cause massive action.

All the rest? Are fun.

Any more infoproduct-related questions? Tell me in the comments!

[Edit: care of the ever-helpful Andy, here is the flowchart of the information product decision process! It's like science, people!]

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